Speakeasy is a community education project for parents and grandparents living within the Belfast and South Eastern Health and Social Care Trust areas.
Why Speakeasy?
Speakeasy has been running in Northern Ireland for over 20 years and recognises the crucial role that parents and guardians play in the development of young people’s sexuality and identity. Many parents and guardians strive to be a positive influence and the go-to person in their children’s lives; however, it is our experience that this often isn’t the reality. Coupled with our modern world of online technology, teaching, and ensuring age-appropriate discussions can be a challenge. Speakeasy aims to increase confidence and self-assurance in parent-child communication and provides opportunities for parents and guardians to explore and discuss solutions that are relevant to them.
How young, is too young?
We are often asked by parents and guardians, if Speakeasy is appropriate to attend if their children are under the age of 5. The answer to this question is YES! It is our experience that the values and attitudes we learn at an early age, particularly about our bodies, personal space, and boundaries, have a life-long impact on how we engage with ourselves and others, especially in personal and sexual relationships.
How does Speakeasy work?
Speakeasy sessions are designed to be flexible and needs-led. Programmes are usually delivered over a period of four to six weeks. Some available options for Speakeasy are:
- Coffee-morning chats (especially useful for parent and toddler groups);
- School-information sessions (especially useful for parent teacher associations);
- Full Speakeasy course (especially useful for community and voluntary sector organisations);
- 1:1 Speakeasy information sessions (especially useful for parents and guardians who require additional support with a specific issue).
What parents say about Speakeasy
“I thought my kids were way too young for me to be thinking about talking to them about sex. I didn’t realise how much more there was to it than that. I’m so glad I came along to this group. I’m starting to talk to them just about their bodies and about their choices.”
“I really appreciate hearing about what’s age-appropriate. I get so nervous when my daughter asks questions like ‘Where did I come from?’ that I end up making jokes about it and not actually answering her. I feel a lot more confident now. It helps practicing it with the other mums here first.”
What teachers say about Speakeasy
“Today, more than ever, parents and guardians are crying out for support around Relationships and Sexuality Education (RSE). When our school advertised that we would host two Speakeasy programmes, both were filled within an hour. Parents and guardians are sometimes nervous and anxious about RSE but the Speakeasy programme supported them with understanding how to talk to their children in an age-appropriate way and helped to reassure them that others are in the same boat as them. The parents and guardians grew in confidence and their anxieties and fears were substantially reduced.”
Get in touch
For more information or to book a course contact:
Tel: 028 9031 6100
Email: info@informingchoicesni.org
You can also download our latest Speakeasy leaflet here